Those born with natal Venus in Virgo are highly devoted and faithful partners who embrace the five senses in their relations. Virgo is a detriment in the Goddess of Love’s planet; where the sentiment of the virgin and indulging all pleasure create a friction in the cosmic frequency. Virgo are refined in their love, and seek a level of intricate harmony; and tend to be quite discriminative about who they open their hearts to. Venus here are generous, reserved and thoughtful; always seeking to assess their emotions through a logical framework. Intellectual and articulate, with Mercury as their ruler, Venus in Virgo rely on the intimacy on conversation and communication for the deeper communion.
Venus in Virgo seek irrefutable perfection in relationships and attempt to avoid chaos at all costs. These individuals maintain enthusiasm and energy for their plans, and their relationships continue the theme. Modest, discerning and simplistic, Venus here are highly attuned to the anxieties of their partners, and direct many of their skills into mediating their life’s conflicts. These individuals are not concerned with being showered in affection and adoration, they prefer to assemble respect, loyalty and intellectual intimacy in their relations. Venus in Virgo are highly oriented toward crystallized and functional relationships, and tend to worry endlessly in will of wanting it to work. These individuals may yearn for a magical spark and eruption of emotion but experience inhibitions and internal austerity. As an Earth sign, Virgo is a deeply sexual and sensual sign, and with high need for physical intimacy, these individuals incorporate the five senses into their sexual experience. Venus here tends to be reticent about letting their feelings flourish and are strict guardians over their emotional responses; and may carry internal feelings of shame, embarrassment and insufficiency.
Venus in Virgo can run the risk of becoming enablers in their relationships and becoming oppressed or even victimised. These individuals tend to express their adoration by simple comforts like a shared silence or just being ‘with’ someone; through mindful acts and gestures of service. Venus here has a tremendous eye for discrimination, and are able to rapidly discern what is of value and resource. These individuals don’t go ‘looking’ for relationships, or compromise their happiness for chaotic or dysfunctional relationships; instead they sit by and wait for that perfect fit that magically slots inside the box.